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How Can I Prepare for My Divorce?

If you are planning on filing for divorce, there are some crucial steps you must take before you get the ball rolling and filing a complaint. The more prepared you are going into this situation, the smoother the process will be. Moreover, your divorce attorney will better understand your case if you are organized and managed to collect most or all of the necessary documents regarding your finances.

Preparing for the Road Ahead

Much like most things in life, preparation is crucial in a divorce. To reduce the struggles and obstacles you may face, there are several steps you should take before getting started. Before you begin any of these steps, however, first make sure this is the right decision for you. It is especially crucial for you to be sure of your decision if you have children. You do not want to cause them any distress or confusion by going back and forth on your decision.

If you are certain that your marriage must come to an end, we compiled a list of steps you should take to prepare for your divorce.

Consider the following tips as you move forward:

  1. Document as much as you can about your marital lifestyle, including your income, your spouse’s income, assets, debts, and expenses. You should also make copies of important financial documents, such as credit card statements, bank statements, tax returns, and pay stubs.
  2. Open up a PO Box for yourself. You do not want your spouse intercepting the documents you need for your divorce, so avoid it altogether by getting a PO Box.
  3. Schedule a consultation with a knowledgeable divorce attorney. People often mistakenly assume they can field their way through the divorce process without legal assistance, but this is a major mistake. During your initial consultation, ask as many questions as you can and learn more about your options. There is more than one way to get a divorce.
  4. Try to create a realistic budget for yourself as a single person. The more you understand about your finances now, the better you can transition into your new life.

You should also take some time to consider how you plan on telling your spouse. If you are not in an emotionally or physically abusive relationship, handling this step with care and compassion might ensure a less acrimonious divorce process.

Schedule a Low-Cost Consultation with Our Knowledgeable Divorce Team

If you are getting a divorce, one of the best ways to prepare for it is to seek the skilled legal guidance of an experienced divorce attorney. At Myers Family Law, our divorce team is backed by more than 25 years of experience in the field and specialize in high conflict custody and divorce matters. You can rely on us to provide the attention, understanding, and care you and your family needs during this emotionally challenging experience.

For the passionate legal advocacy you deserve, contact our law office at (916) 634-0067 to set up a low-cost and confidential consultation with a member of our team.